Monday, July 30, 2007

Sharing The Moments

For the past week, I have been as sick as my son was - and on vacation. I never thought I would type those phrases together.

So many things have gone "wrong" the past few days, most of them too tedious or personal to share. But when it rains it sometimes pours, only this time figuratively. The nice thing is that Jesus has spent the past few years teaching me to ACTIVELY SEARCH for the blessings He's building during these times. They are ALWAYS there.

Just as my son was beginning to feel a bit better from an illness that kicked his dwindling rump, I came down with same said illness. (And hoped for same dwindling rump. :) ) I spent two days here at home MAD, quite frankly, that my hubby can not ever get off of work to help me when I am so sick. The kids are getting old enough finally to keep themselves alive, but they for some reason still forget to feed themselves during these times and the mere sight of food caused very un-pretty-like reactions in me, so every time I got up (relunctantly, at the last possible second, and puking) to go to the bathroom, I had to remind them that nuts and microwave dinners may not make square meals, but it would at least fill their bellies.

On my second night sick, my husband came home with the news that while he couldn't still manage the vacation we had to cancel after 3 weeks off work due to rain, he would find a way for us to at least have 3 days somewhere closer to spend some time relaxing before school starts back soon. And he would be willing to take the kids alone if I still didn't feel well enough. I decided if he had enough faith to plan a vacation under our circumstances, then I would ask for the faith to go and be with my family. I felt a little drowsy and dizzy the first two days, but not lousy by any means and it sure beat being home alone in bed! I LOVE SPENDING DOWN TIME WITH MY FAMILY! And though the vacation was nothing spectacular in terms of our activities, we built memories I will cherish forever. Even the bad hotel and rude people because they have provided us with laugh upon laugh to look back upon. We NEEDED that vacation and I praise God for providing it. It was better medicine for me than any bed or prescription would have provided. And He knew that.

We had a fabulous time in St. Louis, standing under buckets of rain that postponed a Cardinal game, going to a delightful museum recommended by a blogging friend, swimming together until midnight at a bad hotel with hysterical people, and nearly getting thrown off a ride at Six Flags! We made memories I will cherish forever. See, it's not the details of the trip that make it so memorable, but the sweet people I spent it with. Thank You God for my family and time spent together before our schedules get hectic once again. Thank you for shared experiences and being a team. Thank you for making us well once again.

5 comments:

Robin said...

It must be something in the air- this "when it rains it pours" phenomena! I can totally empathize! But bless your heart - what a Christ-like attitude you have. I'm so glad you made such good memories - you will enjoy them forever! I have found that even during the bad times, years later somehow the "bad" goes away and all that is remembered is good or funny! I hope you are feeling much, much better and that your rump has disappeared! Or at least that your kids are eating healthy again! You are so sweet and funny!

Michelle said...

Ugh! I'm sorry to hear you were so sick - and that hubby couldn't get off work to help you out. You're brave to go on that trip feeling like you did! But I can understand your reasoning and for the family togetherness! It seems like it's always raining anytime we've gone through MO! Did you go to the Magic House? Wasn't that just awsome? Or did you go to the Children's Science Museum? Both places were great :)

♥Jessie♥ said...

I wasn't that far away from St. Louis. I can't wait to make friend and meet some of my blogging friends.

Toni said...

We did St. Louis last year. Fun city! I'm just sorry you weren't feeling well. Kudos to you for going though, because like sand through the hour glass, these days pass so quickly.
Blessings,
~Toni~

Boomeyers said...

I'm sorry you had some problems when you were in St. Louis. I would have loved to have given you some City Tips! :) I am born and raised here, so it makes me mad if someone was rude to you! Let me know if you come again! And you almost flew off a ride! Yikes! Glad you can search for your blessings to count and hope you will come back again!